We lost my mom-in-law Vida last night. So I’ll be away for awhile, but first I want to share a story. This photo shows a tiny section of the border of a huge, gorgeous tablecloth that Vida embroidered for us, along with a set of eight napkins. I can’t even begin to imagine how long it took to make . . . just look at all the details, including little French knots around the centers of the flowers! One holiday we were all sitting around the table stuffed and unmoving, savoring the memory of the meal and putting off dish-washing as long as possible. “Everything was just perfect,” someone finally said, breaking the silence. Then another family member replied, “Well . . . not quite . . .” We all looked at her expectantly. “I’m not positive, but I THINK the cloth is on the table wrong-side up!” she explained. We all peered intently at the stitches, and honestly we couldn’t even tell because Vida’s embroidery is as perfect on the back as it is on the front! I sheepishly apologized, but Vida just smiled graciously, loving that my mistake was actually the highest form of compliment to her handiwork. Vida and I have laughed about that every holiday since then, and I know I always will . . . but from now on, with a tear. I love you, Vida! ♥
Jan12
Sorry to hear of the loss.
Beautiful tribute! I am sorry for your loss!
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful story.
I too, am so very sorry for your loss. That was a lovely tribute. It’s wonderful when those we love leave behind something tangible with their love imprinted. I think it’s what drives us to continue to be creative and pass it on to loved ones.
My sympathies go out to you and your family. What a nice memory you have to hold on to!
A beautiful story and I’m sorry for your loss! The stitching is absolutely amazing!
Wishing you and your family the best during your loss…How wonderful to have been left such a lovely memory…
My DEEPEST Condolences to you, and your family. May you all find comfort during this time, and always. I agree that is the highest compliment of her work, showing difficulty in knowing, and finding the right or wrong side of such Master Piece. That story will be handed down from one generation to another. Thank you for sharing what it means to do your work, and do it well. Be Blessed, Mtetar
Beautiful story and I’m so sorry to hear the news. She seems like a wonderful woman, who meant the world to you and your family.
Oh I am so sorry for your loss! My heart goes out to you and your family during this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kenley
so sorry. strength and peace be with you and your family.
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I decided to watch a little tv – n-o-t-h-i-n-g is on, pointless, shallow b-o-r-i-n-g. The Vida’s of this world where born a few generations before me! My GRANDmother was also from that sweet perfect vintage! These woman & men valued things in the right order!
I’m so sorry for your loss, what an amazing story and piece of her you shared with us today.
So, so sorry for your loss! Hugs!
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. What a touching tribute to her skills and kindness.
Oh no so sorry about the loss of your loved one!! Many prayers and thoughts and Hugz to you and your family!! Lisa
What a lovely tribute Katherine, and what a beautiful keepsake you have. xK
I’m sorry for your loss, always hard when people move on without you. But, a lovely testament to her nimble and artistic hands.
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a loving and gracious tribute to a remarkable woman. The embroidery is a wonderful metaphor, too. Someone who was beautiful inside and out. Sending gentle hugs to all of you.
I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of a lady that was clerkly special to you. What a great piece to treasure and remember her by. It’s truly beautiful. Savor your time with family and friends celebrating the life of this special lady.
Shedding a tear along with you…virtual, warm hugs coming your way……blessings, strength and peace to you and your family……..
what a gorgeous tablecloth, and beautiful memory…sorry for your loss, sending lots of virtual hugs your way
I’m so sorry for your loss… I’m glad that you have such a precious treasure from her in the form of the beautiful tablecloth and memories! Hugs… {{ }} Ruth
Sending you a hug and hope that you let the pain and loss in, otherwise it can’t make way for all the found memories you have.
Such a beautiful story. Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care my blogging friend. ♥
I am so sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. What a beautiful memento to remember her by!
Beautiful story, I am so sorry for your loss.
Take care.
Izabel
I’m sorry to hear about your loss. ((hugs))
What a lovely, and loving tribute. I’m sorry for your loss,
So sad to hear of your loss. Hugs to you and your family. Avis x
So, so sorry for your loss. Big hugs all round. I couldn’t imagine life without my mother-in-law 😦
Live fully and loss is hard. Nice that you honor her. Take care.
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss 😦 this is a wonderful story
A truly beautiful tribute to your Mother in law and her embroidery skills. Sorry to hear about your loss.
So sorry for your loss… So thankful that you shared such a warm, grin-inducing memory. Best wishes and much strength.
Very sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss. Will keep you in my thoughts.
I love that you chose to tell this story about your mother-in-law – – what a wonderful celebration of her life! And I think it painted a vivid picture for all of us as to her incredible creativity and talent. I hope and pray that in this season of mourning, you and your family can lean on each other for support, and lean on God. Sending up a prayer for you tonight and a great big virtual hug.
What beautiful needlework. I have some similar tucked away in my china cupboard that my husband’s grandmother made for us. I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your mother in law.
I love this story – and it’s memories like that that help us through our grief. Lots of love and prayers to you during a hard time. xoxo
A delightful story. Sorry for your loss.
Very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your beautiful memory of her with us.
My heart goes out to you & your family during this time; “Vida” means life in Spanish… what a name! I can only imagine the wonderful soul behind it.
I am sorry for your loss. I had a wonderful mother-in-law, and I think of her with the fondest and warmest of memories. Wishing you the same.
Q – What a wonderful memory. I’m sure she’s smiling as she’s reading this.
That is a beautiful memory to have. Love you! Susan
So sorry to hear of your recent loss. Vida’s expert needlework is a tribute to her. Everyone time you use this table cloth, she will be with you. From my experience, treasured memories like this will help you as you grief the loss of such a dear one.
RIP Ms. Vida! Praying for strength during this time of loss – God bless you all!
I love embroidery and this is just beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing. 🙂
I’m sorry for your loss, but its lovely to see her spirit so vibrantly alive in her stitches.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. But what a beautiful piece (and a gracious woman)! Thanks for sharing the story.
It is very heartwarming to read about daughter-in-law/mother-in-law relationships that are full of love and admiration. Thank you for telling us this wonderful story, and know that I am thinking of you and your family at this sad time.
Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. That is a gorgeous piece of handiwork – one that can be treasured for many years to come.
How lucky you are to have a bit of her love for your table. Sorry to hear of your loss, my brother passed away too soon in November, we knew it was going to happen – just too soon.
Oh! I am so sorry for you!
I am so sorry for your loss – I know it is difficult to lose someone you love so much.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mother in law. It is the hardest thing to lose someone special. I hope that every time you use this special tablecloth it brings back this lovely memory for you. Take care, Jen
What a lovely memory to have and tell every year, I am so sorry for your loss, I will be thinking of you and your family.
So sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss Katherine, what a lovely tribute to your mother-in-law.
I’m sorry for your loss. What a blessing that you have such a beautiful piece of work to remember her.
I am so sorry. But your story is a lovely and loving tribute to Vida. We are remembered best by specific details, the examples shared and passed on. You did a beautiful job.
Sounds like this special lady will be very much missed …. but what a lovely family memory you share – one of many no doubt .
I bet she would be chuffed to think that so many people from all over the world would be looking @ her Embroidery work 🙂
What a clever lady. I am very sorry for your loss.
Beautiful post! It sounds like you have a beautiful relationship! Families are so important! I think I’ll love and cherish mine a little extra today because I read your post! Thank you so much!
I am sorry for your loss. What a lovely keepsake to have to remind you of special times shared.
So, so sorry to hear about your loss. Lovely story about your talented mother-in-love! Thank you for sharing…bittersweet. Praying for you and yours today in your loss.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for the wonderful share:)
I just read this…it made me choke up as I too, lost a close mother n law recently. My prayers are with you and your family!
I am so sorry. What a lovely tribute to your mother-in-law. I hope you will have many such happy moments to keep in your heart. Peace be with you.
I’m thinking about you and your family, my sweet. I was also very close to my MIL, whom we lost after I’d only known her for 7 years. It’s a blessing to have had that unique relationship.
So sorry to hear your news. Condolences to your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a special memory with us.
what a wonderful story…i’m tearing up. may the memories comfort you…
I’m sorry for your loss. That is such a beautiful memory to have, though.
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What a lovely memory to treasure. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.
Sending thoughts of peace & healing to you & your loved ones.
Thank you for sharing your story of Vida–dear memories. God keep you in the weeks ahead…
So sorry for your loss, but how lovely to have a wonderful piece of her handiwork to treasure. It’s simply beautiful and a wonderful testament to what a wonderful person she was ❤
I’m sorry I only just saw your post. Vida sounds like she was a wonderful person, and so are you. My sincere sympathy, and hope that your terrific memories help in your healing process.
Oh, Katherine…I am so very sorry for your loss. What a lovely story to remember her by….sending LOVE.
Nice that you have such good memories. Sorry for your loss, I can tell Vida meant a lot to you and I wish you comfort during this time.
So sorry to hear this Katherine, thinking of you x
A beautiful memory to keep with you.
Oh, what a precious memory. I’m so sorry for your loss. I didn’t see this before today.
Hi Kathy, just read your post and my sympathies go to you and your family. Peace be with you all. Cath
I’m just catching up and I’m sorry to hear this sad news. I send you love and condolences. In time you will remember with a smile. 🙂
sending you lots of love and sympathy, what a dear story, one to cherish!
So sorry for your loss. Such lovely memories 🙂
I’ve read this beautiful post twice now….so sorry for your loss xxx
How lovely to have such wonderful memories
I loved this story. What a wonderful thing to remember every time you use her gorgeous tablecloth.
Lillian
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I am so so sorry for your loss, what a beautiful story and a beautiful way to remember her. Thinking of you.
That is such a funny story. I’m so glad you have this table linen with your mother-in-law’s handwork to bring you fond memories. These are the things we take comfort in. Wishing you all the best.
My prayers go out to you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute for your Mom-in-law.
What a lovely and sweet honor and tribute. Beautiful embroidery! Wishing you the continued blessings and comfort of friends and family!
That was such an amazing story and the cloth is just beyond perfection, a true beauty of a very, very talented person-in-crafts.
So sorry for your loss. It is a beautiful tablecloth.
The table cloth is a precious heriloom to pass on in your family, a connection to your Mother-in-Law and her memory. It is beautiful.
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Browsing through your blog, I came upon this post from two years ago. Still resonates. What a heart-warming tribute to an obviously charming lady. ~Joanne